Those who knew Carlo know what a fighter he was. Determined, focused, strong, hopeful, optimistic.
From the beginning of his symptoms, Carlo never doubted that he would overcome the odds. He had so much faith in medicine, in his doctors, in his supportive family. He fully trusted the advice of his brothers, and bravely and diligently complied with all the diagnostic tests and therapeutic maneuvers presented by his doctors, without whimper or complaint.
But even as we prayed for healing, we also prayed for God’s will, knowing that He is sovereign above all.
Towards the last weeks of Carlo’s life on earth, we could see that his body was drastically losing the battle. It was unspeakably heart-wrenching to see and hear him suffer in pain.
We realized that indeed, there is a time to hold on, and to fight with all your might, but there is also a time to surrender.
They say that to love is to never give up, but we have learned that the ultimate expression of love is to let go.
And so one by one, Carlo’s brothers and I, his sweetheart, and his close friends, we all said our goodbyes, telling him it is alright to not fight anymore, giving him permission to leave his broken body, and finally be free.
We knew he wanted so much to stay and be with us, but it was not meant to be. Twenty-eight years was all we had together, and we are so grateful for those years of laughter, fun, and love.
We are especially grateful that despite three leukemia relapses in the last two years, we were able to show Carlo how much we loved him, in words and in actions.
We are also thankful for all the people who have generously supported us in this journey, physically, emotionally, medically, financially, and spiritually.
In the past two years, we have encountered a lot of pain and difficulties, but we have also experienced the goodness of God through amazing circumstances, and through the kindness of so many people. Many more stories to tell!
We love and miss you so much, Vincent Carlo Vera Cruz!
Dr. Maria Carmelita Nuique-Vera Cruz
Mother of Carlo, Patrick, Michael, Lorenzo, and Raphael
