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Why is a father important in our lives?

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My father, [Bayawan Vice Mayor] Atty. Ismael Martinez, is very important in my life because as we were growing up, he was the main breadwinner of our family. Not only is he a good provider of our material needs, he also continues to give of his time generously, and of his love so deeply. I see in him what a good father and husband should be — which is also why I must have chosen [incoming Board Member] Jack Raymond for myself and for my children. — Atty. Pristine Martinez-Raymond, legal counsel, Edlaw Office

My father, Atty. Ebenezer Lim, is important in my life because he is the primary image-bearer of God to his children. He is a reflection — albeit imperfect — of the heavenly Father in his faith, firmness, mercy, wisdom, and love. — Edrei “JB” Cornelia Lim, proprietor, BJB Marketing

A mother keeps everyone together. But a father holds the family together. My Daddy, Joaquin “Jackie” Cuisia, worked hard, and did the best he could. He taught me to be strong, to be respectful, and to never be blinded by the trappings of power or money. My Daddy was my rock, and a day doesn’t go by without me missing him. — Atty. Cristine Cuisia-Remollo, senior vice president/general counsel, Prudential Guarantee & Assurance Inc.

Fathers are what makes a significant portion of us, just as how other important people in our lives play a part in developing who we are. Fathers always push us to overcome our struggles, and are always there to listen. They are important in our lives because they teach us how to become strong and independent. The process may be slow at times but fathers will always exercise their patience, take their time to give us the best opportunities in life, and will always support us in whatever we do. That is how I regard my beloved father, Atty. Gilbert Arbon. — Gabriel Lance Calumpang Arbon, Information Technology sophomore, Silliman University

My Papa, [Vice Gov.] Dr. Edward Mark Macias, has taught me the value of hard work and sacrifice through his own example. Through him, I’ve learned that while we can’t choose the circumstances we are dealt with, we can choose how we respond to them. Papa is one man who does things with passion, and never gives up. — Ma. Claudia Ysabel Laurena Macias, psycholometrician

I learned all my moral values from my father, Dumaguete’s beloved former Mayor Agustin “Tuting” Perdices, and how these should be reflected in all aspects of my life. — Agustin Miguel “Tincho” Araneta Perdices, Dumaguete councilor

Fathers are important in our lives. They are our earliest teachers, staunchest supporters, and untiring encouragers. Aside from being the main providers and breadwinners, they are also the spiritual leaders of the household. When the mothers are usually the firm disciplinarians, the fathers almost always stand as the fun playmates. When fathers are present in their children’s lives, the latter tend to thrive more in all aspects – physically, academically, emotionally, and psychologically. God created me fearfully and wonderfully; my mother Marissa nurtured me the way an eagle tends to her eaglet, but it was my father, Ed Dames, who taught me to spread my wings and fly. — Eireen Margaret “Cookie” Dames-Tiglao, Zumba instructor

A father is someone who is always there for the family, no questions asked. He makes sacrifices in his life just so that his family can have a better life. He is someone who shows by example that we must help others, without asking for anything in return. Fathers deserve all the love in the world, and that is why my family appreciates and loves our Daddy, Dumaguete Mayor Felipe Antonio Remollo, with all our hearts. — Dio Cuisia Remollo, 4th year, Ateneo de Manila University School of Law.

The role of fathers is of prime import because they provide stability in the family unit. And yet, out of God’s pure genius, the father balances the sternness that comes with authority with indulgence and some sort of fun lenience — as he becomes like a kid again playing with his children growing up, as he becomes like a teenager again exerting every effort to understand teen anxieties and insecurities, and as he deals with his grown-up/mature children providing them with wisdom and guidance as they navigate through life’s challenging pathways. All these the father does with genuine love. That is who my Papa, Atty. Herminio Ozoa, is. And that his how I hope and pray my four boys would grow up to become. — Dr. Susan Micaela Ozoa-Denura, cardiologist

A father is one who not only provides for his family but guides them throughout their lives. He gives the family direction, and protects them from the cruelties in the world. He sacrifices not for himself but for the whole family. The role of a father is not confined to the stereotypical male gender. A father can also be a single mother who will do anything for her kids. A father’s love knows no bounds. Respect and love are what we owe to fathers, like my Daddy, Atty. Felipe Antonio Remollo. — Pelos Cuisia Remollo, 4th year, Ateneo de Manila University School of Law.
 

A father always plays an important role in a child’s life, and forever holds a piece of his daughter’s heart. My father, Engr. Debonaire Mamhot, was the first person to teach me how to be brave, and he was also the first person to catch me when I “fell”. He continues to encourage me to be independent because he trusts that I can do it on my own. I am confident he will always be there for me because he never fails to let me know that I am deeply loved. — Krystle Joyce Mamhot-Ozoa, marketing assistant, SU Office of Information & Publications

A father is important in our lives because they serve as our pillar of strength. They are the role models, the guide, the source of our wisdom, knowledge, and everything else. We must always remember to appreciate our fathers because without them, we will not be who we are today. Like my own Dad, Raul Marlo Dancel, most fathers sacrifice and do everything to give the best to their families. I cannot imagine how Dad did it — putting our interests first, and making himself the least of his priorities. I will be forever grateful to my Dad; I love him so much for all that he does for us. — Anthony Rodney Aves Dancel, new graduate, BS Chemical Engineering, University of the Philippines-Visayas

Fathers play a vital role in our development. The nurturing and loving care of the father is just as important as the mother’s. Fathers may show it in a slightly different way than mothers, but they are crucial in shaping our lives. The influence of my father, Rev. Reuben Cedino, has changed through the different stages of my life. As a kid, I always looked at my Dad as the leader, with a strong and powerful personality, making the family decisions, the disciplinarian. As a teenager/adolescent, I looked at my Dad as the source of love and caring for my mother and my siblings, almost always supporting our varied interests. At home, I saw how he dealt with family problems and work-related challenges, how he sparked among us deep conversations about life. I saw his passion and dedication to serving others, the calm way he would speak, the gentle words he would use. I also remember seeing his unassuming ways when he was tired and angry; sometimes it was difficult to tell because he just remained so calm, unperturbed, and so collected, even when he was already down, hurting, and heavy-hearted. Still, you could sense the emotional and vulnerable side of him. And now as an adult, about to get a life partner of my own, I just realized that having seen all these in him have actually had an impact in the way I live my life now, in the way I deal with emotions and problems, the way I interact with people, in the decisions that I make each day, in the friends that I choose, the conversations that I have, and in the kind of lasting relationship that I want. No doubt that fathers build a solid foundation in our lives. They guide, lead, and support us. And that is why our fathers should be celebrated! To all fathers and father-figures out there, and to my dear father, thank you. You are so needed, and so appreciated more than you’ll ever realize. — Dorothy Jane Cedino, newly-licensed physical therapist

A father is important in our lives because he is someone who teaches children important lessons in life that are not taught in school. He teaches children life skills that would help them in their future. And it seems these are the skills that can only be learned from the father, and from no one else. This is why I believe my father, Ernan Andrew Quiamco, is very important in my life. — Andrew Dominic “Mico” Gravador Quiamco, Philippine Air Transport & Training Services (PATTS) College of Aeronautics.

My father, Atty. Rommel Erames, is important in my life because he served as my pillar of strength while I was growing up. Now than I’m an adult, he remains my constant supporter, my No. 1 fan, and simply my unsung hero. The world is a better place because of our wonderful and selfless fathers like my Dad. — Atty. Rosel Margarette Quiambao Erames, incoming Dumaguete City councilor

A father is important in our lives because he is the pillar of strength who will always be there to guide us through the path of life. My Papa Dr. Bobbin Sy taught me to see the world from different perspectives, that there will always be something amazing to discover no matter how small it may be, but never losing sight of the endless possibilities around me. His happy disposition and his laughter always make me smile after a long and tiring day in school. He inspires me to do my best and to do good in everything that I do, especially in my studies. I always keep him in my prayers that God will continue to watch over him all the days of his life. — Chloe Jossette T. Sy, Grade 8, Holy Cross High School

A father is really important because he serves as the figure that you follow and look up to. A father is always there for you, and he is constantly doing his best for you, even when you don’t realize it. My father, Engr. Arnold Antonio, may seem unfair at times but I understand he is just doing what’s good for me. That’s why I love him, and appreciate him so much. — Rosabella Veloso Antonio, 13 years old

Fathers are important because they are the foundation of the family. Fathers are all-around; they can literally be anything for the family. My father, Ernan Andrew Quiamco, means the world to me. He is my hero when it comes to stuff I can’t do; my #1 supporter when it comes to sports or in whatever I do that makes him happy. It’s also clear that I am his, too. He continues to be, and always will be my playmate. Without my father, I wouldn’t be who I am today. I love how he makes time for me despite his hectic schedule, how he gets things done, and how achieves with his drive to do the things he cares about. We should never underestimate our fathers. Thank you for everything, Pap, and I love you! — Roslind Eveanne “Eanne” Gravador Quiamco, first ever Dumaguete badminton player (girls division) to represent Central Visayas in the Palarong Pambansa.

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